At first marriage seems like a walk in a park but in reality it’s hard starting to adjust living with a new person and sharing your whole life with them. But over the years when you both start to accept each other’s lifestyle and habit, that’s when it really becomes fun. Here ae the stuff that every married couple who have been in a long term marriage can relate to:
YOU FIND-OUT THE TRUE MEANING OF MARRIAGE –
When you have been living together around five years or more that’s when you know what is meant to be really married. Most of the wives feel like they have adopted a person and have to look after him like a child because his parents were not able to handle him anymore.
YOU REALIZE THAT IT’S NO MORE BED OF ROSES –
There are lots of new responsibilities. Your life takes a new turn, you have to adjust to a new lifestyle and adjust living with a new person.
YOU ACCEPT EACH OTHER’S UGLY SIDE –
You don’t have to look pretty or handsome for each other all the time. In fact it becomes weird when your partner compliments you that you are looking good.
YOU UNDERSTAND THE TRUE MEANING OF LOVE –
At times you both become frustrated with each other that you want to punch the other in face and then place ointment on it so that it won’t hurt because.. sigh, you love your partner!
YOU LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE THINGS YOUR PARTNER DOES –
Yu both realise that each one of you is working hard for the well-being of the family. Husband realises that it’s not easy being a house-wife, and the wife knows that it’s not easy being the bread winner for the whole family.
WELL, IF YOU ARE MR. RIGHT, SHE IS MRS. ALWAYS RIGHT –
There is no question in that! If you want a happy, healthy married life just accept it – Wife is always right!
BEST KIND OF WEEKENDS ARE SPEND CHILLING AT HOME TOGETHER –
Outdoor hangouts does not attract you anymore. You both would rather stay at home in your comfy pyjamas and binge watch a T.V show with each other and order a pizza. That’s more relaxing and fun!
YOU BECOME A PRO AT HANDLING ARGUMENTS –
You know what pisses off your partner and no one but you know how to deal with them when they get in the monstrous mood. You know how to defend.
YOU LOVE TEASING EACH OTHER –
Its no more considered offensive to pick on each other or to playfully tease each other on their habits or the work they do. You both have become completely comfortable with each other and you know when your partner is serious or just kidding.
TALKING TO EACH OTHER BECOMES MORE HONEST AND COMFORTABLE –
You can easily tell each other even the most embarrassing of tings about each other. There is no boundary or hesitation in sharing everything with each other.
YOU CAN BE ALL CHILDISH –
You know your husband loves you when he starts acting like a little kid with you and wants you to take care of them like a mother takes care of each and everything of her child. He would want all your attention and care.
ABOVE ALL, YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER THE WAY YOU ARE –
You no longer want your significant other to change for you. You have expected each other the way you are and love them for being their original self.
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