We know how stressful this wedding phase is. It can make the most calm woman loose her cool. So we have list down the some of the things a chilled out bride would never do. So just relax and let everything go with the flow.
BEING BRAND CONSCIOUS AND SPENDING ALOT –
It’s fine to go for branded items and designer dresses as long as your budget allows. But if it’s putting a lot of strain on you financially then don’t do it! Don’t go out of the way to get that dream designer dress of your’s or getting everything from your makeup to handbags to sandals, from branded shops. There are a lot of stores that make second copy of big brands and you can get that exact designer lehnga replicated at a cheaper rate. There are a number of people in every city that do that kind of work. You can save your money for a dream honeymoon instead!
BEING A COMPLAIN BOX –
You should accept the fact that everything will not go according to your plan. There will be ups and downs and alterations will have to be made. You have to keep it together and not get depressed about every little thing. You should be flexible in your approach.Some things will be in your control and you will be able to fix them, whereas others will not be in your control. If things cannot be fixed, forget it and enjoy the moment. It is your wedding and don’t let one small thing spoil your mood.
DIET ATTACK –
DO NOT SKIP YOUR MEALS. We cannot tell you how important it is for you to eat and stay energised during your wedding planning and the functions. You will not put on weight and your outfit will not get tight for you immediately after one meal, we assure you that. There is a difference between being skinny and being fit. Choose to be healthy, fit and toned for your wedding over being skinny, we say.
TRYING TO DO EVERYTHING YOURSELF –
Its is almost impossible for you to take charge of everything. Delegate duties to your family and friends. Tell them your likes, dislikes and preferences and trust them with the job. You will not be available at all times for the planners and caterers to contact you for every question and doubt. Stay in the loop of course but don’t try to do a million things at once, you won’t be able to concentrate on anything and will become more stressed and tired.
BEING RUDE TO OTHER PEOPLE BECAUSE OF STRESS –
There are various things running in your head on and around your wedding day but it isn’t a good idea to be angry at and be rude to your friends and family. Being a bride doesn’t give you the license to be mean. Your friends and family are around you to help out. Be nice to them. Trust us they want this day to be as special and perfect for you as much as you want it to be. So you should appreciate them instead.
EXPERIMENTING WITH NEW MAKEUP OR FOOTWEAR –
Your wedding functions are really not the day for you to experiment and try new makeup. Stick to the cosmetics you have already tested and tried on your skin and don’t try anything new on your wedding day. Also, do not let your makeup artist try a new look on you, make sure you have had a trial session with her beforehand. You really don’t want to walk around with blistered feet on your special day because of a new foot wear, we suggest you to put on that pair and break into it well before the big day.
IGNORING THE NATURE’S CALL –
As a bride you start getting ready 3 -4 hours before the event actually starts. Even if you are all dressed and ready to go in your wedding dress, don’t be shy to go to the bathroom. You might want your friends and family to help you carry the dress since it’s heavy and difficult to manage alone. It’s better to pee and get done with it before the function starts because then probably you went get time.
NOT SLEEPING WELL –
You need to get your BEAUTY SLEEP! Sleeping helps repair dead cells. This will make your skin better and you can avoid those tired puffy eyes and dark circles, surely you don’t want them at your wedding day. The fresher you are, the better you’ll look and the better you’ll feel! It will also improve your bad mood because of all the stress going.
Do follow these tips, relax and make most of this time. You’ll miss it!
About Shadi Tayari
We at Shadi Tayari love weddings and all aspects related to it. Our goal is to help you plan the perfect wedding – the wedding that will speak volumes about your personality. Our creative team has got all the amazing ideas for you. From catering to venues, we make sure that we provide wedding suppliers who deliver on time and on a budget. Making hundreds of weddings successful, Shadi Tayari is the ultimate Shadi solution in Pakistan.