Desi Weddings are incomplete until and unless the groom or bride side has to go through some of the mandatory rituals. Among all one of the most famous is “joota chupai rasam” in which the shoe of the groom has been secretly hidden by the cousins, sisters or friends. In return all the “saalis” of “dulha” want a heavy loaded wallet full of paper money!
It seems kind of fun yet amusing “rasam” but sometimes it turned to be disaster, but there some things which can be decided to be on a safer side to avoid the hassle of the “rasam”
Lock the deal-
To end the “rasam” in the smooth manner, it is advisable for bride’s side to decide the amount of money they are going to make a demand for!
So, everything goes in a smooth manner.
It’s purely a “rasam” for cousins and friends-
“Joota chupai” is supposed to be the “rasam” for girls! Better alert because aunties are pulling up their socks to be a part of the “rasam”. Let the girls have fun aunties!
The less, the more-
Get ready for the ultimate battleground! In most of the families it kind of mandatory to hop up the stage and grab the groom shoes as quickly as possible! But that’s completely not done. Be organise, not more than 4-5 people would be allowed to be stand up on the stage.
Don’t play hide and seek!
That could be the most annoying thing when the “saalis” of the groom try their best to hide the shoe at the end corner of the world! For God sake, no one has time to deal with these “annoying” stuff.
Don’t show off-
It’s better to avoid the show off of reward that you got from “dulha”!
It’s kind of awkward!
Leave some option for negotiation-
After the flaunting of “joota” here come the customary negotiation. Leave your doors open for a little bit of negotiation.
Stealing the “joota” of the groom has always been a fun-filled “rasam”. Go ahead groom and don’t give the shoe until you get what want!
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