Congratulations! You are someone’s fiance now! It’s an amazing phase and you should cherish every moment of it. Not just girls, but also boys need to take care certain things since you are now engaged:
“Feeling blessed”, “Alhamdulillah! Engaged!” – Facebook rush!
Hold your horses! Before you make any status update like that on any social media, be sure that you have informed your close friends and family members personally. You don’t want them to feel hurt or unimportant just because they got to know about it through facebook and not by you
Brace yourself! Questions are coming!
Get ready to be asked all sorts of question like how, where, when, who? And the most common question will be the proposal tale. You’ll have to tell everyone all the details of how you got engaged? How’s your ring? how did he propose you? how did she accept? So don’t get annoyed and share your happiness with the right people.
Spend time with his/ her family –
Both the bride and the groom should spend time with each other’s family and bond with them. this helps create better understanding between the families. The more familiar they are with each other, the lesser chances there are for conflicts.
Start saving!
You better start saving for your dream honeymoon or that dream designer dress. There are a lot of foreseen expenses in a wedding, so better be prepared and have some liquid cash for rainy days.
Start researching and brainstorming –
You better start gathering and compiling all the ideas and trends you want to in cooperated in your wedding. You can either make a scrapbook, or a folder on your phone. This will help you understand and visualise better how exactly you want the wedding to be.
Protect your relationship at all times!
Now you both are about to get married. It’s a very stressful time, not only for you but you families as well. Be patient don’t let the negativity of other people come between you two. Keep the romance alive and build stronger bonds with each other. From now on you both need to work as a team and face everything together. And don’t let wedding planning stress get the better of you both.
Eat, dance, celebrate –
It’s your moment and you can choose to express it however you want. Eat, dance, twirl, run! enjoy yourself! This moment won’t come again. Use these moments to enjoy all the pampering and attention. Enjoy this new phase of your life and the journey from being a fiancée to a wife/ husband. This time ain’t coming back!
About Shadi Tayari
We at Shadi Tayari love weddings and all aspects related to it. Our goal is to help you plan the perfect wedding – the wedding that will speak volumes about your personality. Our creative team has got all the amazing ideas for you. From catering to venues, we make sure that we provide wedding suppliers who deliver on time and on a budget. Making hundreds of weddings successful, Shadi Tayari is the ultimate Shadi solution in Pakistan.