Confidence comes slow and steady. It takes time and baby steps with experiences. It’s not just a result, ladies, but also a process! But on your journey, you know you’d always have us to help around!
DON’T FOLLOW THE HERD –
Confident girls always weigh both sides of an argument before making a choice. They don’t follow the herd and neither do they create one. They respect the opinions of others but stay strong about their own opinions as well.
LEARN TO SAY “NO!” –
Most of us land ourselves in unpleasant situation because of our incapability to say NO! You have to understand that you’re not here just to please the world! Don’t want to meet someone? Say no! Don’t feel like volunteering for a college event? Say no!
LET GO OF THE TOXICS –
let go of all the grudges, guilt, past experiences and toxic people in life. Not all people are meant to bring positivity in your life, and if they are not positive for you – let them go. learn to forgive and forget. Not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because you need peace in life. learn from bad experiences but don’t let them hold you back or stop you from being better.
SUPPORT OTHERS –
Being confident and independent doesn’t mean you have to hurt others, demoralise them or be rude. You should be able to make others feel confident about yourself too, they should feel they can count on you if they ever need you. you should always be nice to people especially those close to you. 
ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS –
No one is perfect. But accepting your imperfections without being stubborn about it is part of being strong and independent. Embrace your imperfections instead of hiding them and aim for being successful and happy instead of perfect.
DON’T COMPARE YOURSELF –
You are your own individual person. You can never be someone else. Every single person is different from each other, so stop comparing! Never compare yourself with someone else. It is one unhealthy practice that all confident girls steer away from! They know that there are two sides to every coin and that no one has it easy.
LISTEN TO YOUR LOVED ONES –
It is true that confident women are usually the one sharing ideas and people like listening to them. But they also know when to stop and listen to others. If they find a good suggestion coming from their best friend they won’t mind listening to it and letting the people who care about them be there for them. 
NEVER FEEL ASHAMED TO SEEK HELP –
You don’t always have to lead to be confident. Sometimes, you have to admit that you need help. Not shying away from asking about something you don’t understand or taking someone else’s help to figure out something you can’t on your own is not a sign of weakness. If anything, it’s a sign of maturity! 
ALWAYS KEEP IMPROVING –
Being confident means you always keep plenty of room for improvement. It does not mean that you become egoistic and proud, instead, you should be willing to improve yourself. Confident girls believe that there is only one way to go from where they stand and that’s upwards!
About Shadi Tayari
We at Shadi Tayari love weddings and all aspects related to it. Our goal is to help you plan the perfect wedding – the wedding that will speak volumes about your personality. Our creative team has got all the amazing ideas for you. From catering to venues, we make sure that we provide wedding suppliers who deliver on time and on a budget. Making hundreds of weddings successful, Shadi Tayari is the ultimate Shadi solution in Pakistan.