Getting married is beautiful. We all love the lovely vibes coming right before getting nikkah-fied. The teasing of the friends, the shor sharaba at home and butterflies in the tummy are all the signs of a nearby ‘’Qubool hai Qubool hai Qubool hai’’ moment.
During this whole process of excitement, we often forget that we are getting married to an unknown person and don’t know much about their likes and dislikes, their habits and personality. And chances are, we may end up disappointing them right after the wedding. So to know your better half properly, we have gathered a bunch of things that you need to know about your better half before getting nikkah-fied.
For brides:
About his likes, dislikes and interests:
You know that guys can be clumsy at times and their habits never change. What he likes, he likes and you can’t do anything about it. Getting married especially with a Pakistani dulha makes it compulsory for you to know all about his likes, dislikes and interests beforehand.
Food that he love the most:
You may not be an excellent cook but woh kehtey haina, mard ke dil tak ka raaste uske tummy sey hota huya jaata hai. That is true because all men love to eat and that too for no reason. I am sure you will love to cook for him so just make sure what he likes eating.
How mad he is in anger?
Anger is the worst enemy of human beings, especially guys. They have least control on their anger. So before getting married to an angry young man, get to know him and his anger disease.
What he likes that you might hate
He may like certain things that you just hate or things that you might love and he just hate. So it is important to know each other’s likes and dislikes.
How trustworthy/loving/caring/reliable he is
And this shouldn’t be difficult, you don’t need to inspect him every then and now. His actions are enough to judge his personality.
For grooms:
The most essential thing: khana banana aata hai?
They have least concern with the wedding, all they care about is ke ab koi khaana banana wali aajaegi. Okay, justified! So just make sure your better half knows how to cook otherwise shaadi karney ka maksad hi khatam hojayega.
Her nature likes/dislikes/interests/hobbies etc.:
Unlike many guys who don’t really pay attention to how a girl feels, you should know what makes her happy because she is going to be your responsibility from now. And you must take necessary measures to keep her happy forever.
Will she adjust in a joint family?
Although all the Pakistani girls are trained properly to adjust in any situation and it is obvious that you won’t leave your dear family after your shaadi. So just ask her how flexible she is in a relationship and will she adjust in a joint family or no.
Her mood swings:
Some girls have a bad habit of switching their mood button on and off again and again. And that’s fair enough I guess because she tackles a lot after marriage. But when and how she can change her mood, you should know that to avoid any consequences.
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